アマニ・ファンシーさんのインスタグラム写真 - (アマニ・ファンシーInstagram)「Friendly reminder as I think this is such a topical, important constant in our lives that needs to be viewed differently 🙏🏽 1) to those that are sad today - feel the emotion, we think sadness is an emotion reserved for tragedy but in reality it’s an emotion we all share from time to time, frequently. It is in fact a beautiful emotion that is okay to explore as it helps to cherish the happy times more. But why is it so taboo to be sad? We just never post about it because this “second life” is an online fake-reality, it’s an imposter that pretends life is simply happy-happy - All. The. Time. We all go through ups and downs. And this is not just ok, it is normal. It is healthy. So if you’re seeing 365 day happy people here on instagram, please my loves, don’t fall for it. 2) parties, luxury and 100s of friends. A snapshot does not portray a night. It does not portray a persons life or their true surroundings. Everyone goes through emptiness. This tool, this app, is used to temporarily believe that this personal emptiness is fulfilled and to show others this ‘fulfillment’. Uff, we are all on a journey striving to reach contentment, fulfillment and satisfaction. We all have fun days and we all have less fun days. It’s ok. 3) Probably the most important one. To my young community who are constantly exposed to retouched, edited pictures where normal has become “ugly” and beautiful has become “normal” in this world of comparison, ranking, and unparalleled competition. Do not fall for it. I did. For a long time I compared myself to Instagram beauty and I started to feel down & then even started to edit my pics in the same way!! I was once part of the problem - no, no, no. There is no need - by all means, use the filter u love, make the picture brighter if its capture was too dark, but before you drastically change your face or body, due to feeling “inadequate” I urge you to remember - YOU are beautiful behind this screen. WE WERE NEVER BORN FEELING INFERIOR OR LESS BEAUTIFUL - media, despite its advantages, has made us so. Do u have people in your life who love you & would do so without social media? Who think you are beautiful? YES? GOOD. THAT’S ENOUGH. U ARE ENOUGH.」8月9日 3時44分