ヴィタ・シドルキナさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ヴィタ・シドルキナInstagram)「Yesterday, when I was asked if I ever get jealous of my husband's beautiful exes, I replied that I'm not jealous- I'm proud, haha. He's dated many, but he chose me. I received a few feedbacks one of which was, that I shouldn't give a man the power to make it sound like he chose me- in her view (person who wrote me) it was all in the context of women empowerment. However, what I was really trying to say is the truth….My husband was the first to notice me, to reach out, to invite me on a date, to propose, and to discuss our future together…and that’s exactly the way I invisioned it for myself. In this era of "women's empowerment," where traditional tales of prince come to concure the princess as seening something wrong…and traditional values of family as seeing someone is not appropriate. Let me clarify, I'm all for supporting women in business, motherhood, sisterhood, and any other aspect of life. But being a strong woman, in my view, doesn't mean I have to emulate stereotypical male qualities in every aspect of my life. I'm personally comfortable being feminine and gentle when I'm with my husband. It's the place where I can be my true feminine self For me, independence isn't about refusing help from a man or letting him be a man. it's about having my own independence of thought, interests, and opinions. It's not a competition between genders. As a mother of girl(s) in this modern world, I hope to instill in them the idea that being a strong doesn't always mean taking the lead in everything. It's about having the sensibility and intuition to know when to step up and when to step down…」9月26日 23時16分