ニューヨーク・タイムズさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ニューヨーク・タイムズInstagram)「Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist in Santa Barbara, Calif., noticed an interesting pattern among her clients in long-term relationships: They would complain that their partners only touched them to initiate sex. The gesture, a back rub or a playful grab, would make them flinch. This “bristle reaction,” a common intimacy killer in long-term relationships, can make physical connection difficult, experts say. Touching is interpreted as a prelude to sex and the resulting flinch often leaves the initiator feeling rejected and embarrassed, while the bristler might feel resentful or guilty. Tap the link in our bio for tips on how to interrupt this cycle.」10月1日 1時19分