Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「I've forgotten how to pose without a bump - what do I do with my hands again without a bump to rest them in? I had a shoot today - swipe to see the reality of getting ready with a baby. I almost didn't post these photos, as I started to zoom in and pick myself apart. But then I thought STOP IT YOU FELT GREAT. But also the bloody dress deserves a moment. I need it! It's funny how we do that to ourselves isn't it? Like when I sent a photo of my friend to her and she said she hated it and she looked awful. I thought she looked amazing. Often dissect ourselves in such detail that others don't. Someone sees a photo of happiness and laughter - but the person sees the miniscule details of themselves. They zoom so far in they don't see happiness and smiles they see the less than perfect teeth, or the pimple on your cheek. It's like looking at the sea and focusing on the seaweed. You miss the bigger picture. 🌊❤️ I'm also being kind to myself, because I'm 7 weeks postpartum. I've not slept through the night for a while, I'm healing, and there's hormones all over my body. I chatted about it on stories yesterday, but just to say regarding work - I'm only doing the bits that I can do with Ada at the moment. She comes fjrst. My mental health and physical recovery second. But just know that my house is a mess behind the scenes. We honestly can't do it all and we shouldn't be expected too. Anyway, I can't wait to share the shoot. It was just a quick one but it's about breaking down taboos around Postnatal recovery and how to feel confident. 🙏❤️」4月28日 5時26分