Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「How was this 9 weeks ago already? 🥹❤️ Time is going so quickly! I think having a toddler and a baby has just made the days disappear, but It's been the best time ever. Does that mean I'm out of the 4th trimester already? Or is that 12 weeks? I should probably Google it. I keep being asked about my recovery and so far it's been amazing. Obviously people have very different experiences with recovery, but mine seems to have been so straightforward. The scar is totally healed, and I'm doing my massages and keeping it hydrated. I've been told there's no prolapse this time, and I feel very mobile! But it takes about 24 months to fully recover so I'm just taking it day by day and being sensible with what I do. The hardest thing has been not being able to pick up Alf. I'm counting down the days to 12 weeks to be able to pick him up again! I thought I'd hate having the scar but I love it. A little reminder of the best day ever to add to the tapestry of my life that is my body. I like to think of bodies like that. Every scar with their own story to tell. Every stretch mark a sign of growth. Every line a sign of a life well lived- of laughter and heartbreak. My body image is really good. I don't really care how my body looks - my old clothes don't fit but it took a year for my bones to move back after Alf. I'd rather enjoy the experience and memories I'm making then care about my body's appearance. Rather know my body is healthy and functional than care about the appearance. But I feel stronger than I did with my last birth. Mentally I feel great. I worry every now and then that I only talk about parenthood, but I'm still a mum to a newborn, that's pretty much all there is right now and that's ok. I'm enjoying it actually - I find myself really present with Alf when I'm with him and I like the dynamic. Now I'm having chicken fajita night with my in laws whilst cuddling Ada. Bank holidays look pretty different these days. Hope you're all having fun whatever you're up to. ❤️🙏」5月7日 4時37分